guy problem HELP!!!

well me -n- my ex broke up like 2 months ago and i cant stop thinkin bout him. i mean i cry mostly every nite for him bcuz he left me jus out of tha blu and i didnt even give him a reason to leave me. then he called me last week and he was actin like if we were still together cuz hes tryin to keep me on check. i jus wanna know if i should wait for him bcuz i know our love is tru cuz i could feel when we was together so can yall guys HELP ME PLEASE!! GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!

i know how ur feelin my bf broke up with me 2 days ago and when we talk he acts like were still 2gether. i know how u feel believe me. but then sometimes when we talk he acts like im getting on his nerves.. hello if u dont wanna talk then dont give mixed signals. i know how u feel keep ur head up. check out my post boyfriend maddness! please help~! n it will tell u that ur not alone at all. keep ur head up grl n if u need sum1 2 talk to im here.

love,
paulette

Hello Lizette. Let me ask you this, if he left you the first time, what makes you think he won't leave you again??? Furthermore, 'hes tryin to keep (you) on check,' now to me, that sounds like he thinks ur under his control, an asset. If he felt true love for you, he wouldn't leave you in the first place. Thus, don't wait for him, you have to live ur life without him for ur own sake. You deserve someone better than that.
I know it won't be easy to continue without him 'cause you still love him, but you don't want ur heart broken again do u??? It's been 9 months since my girl *dumped* me, so i am on the road to recovery like you.
My advice is to talk about ur emotions, let it ALL OUT. Trust me, it really helps. Furthermore, remove anything that reminds you of him 'cause if u see something that plants his face in ur mind, then u will feel depressed all over again. I know u don't want to lose everything that relates to him 'cause he brought u so much happiness, so keep one or 2 really significant objects, but put them away from sight. Oh gosh, i have many ways to help you get over him, but u will learn a few on the way. So i'll leave you with an important one, time. At first, i didn't believe time brought relief, but when i look back, it really gave me opportunites for introspection and course adjustments in my life. The pain i feel now is like a ripple compared to that 9 months ago.
I truly wish you the best of luck and take care!!! 8)