Should I Answer?

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    Hey everybody, I decided to post this here since the love forum tag isn't even on here anymore.

    Well... a few months ago, in September, me and this guy named Ray broke up. Which was good, we didn't have all that great of a relationship. I cried a lot whenever we were together. I was always worried about him. Then we got into an arguement one day because I asked him if he still wanted to be with me, and we never spoke again.
    I moved on. I found an even better guy and have been with him ever since. But he moved 4 states away last month to Las Vegas.. and I haven't talked to him since either. His phone doesn't have any money on it. So.. I'm pretty much single now, it feels like it.

    Last night I was feeling really depressed so I fell asleep early. Whenever I woke up, I had two new messages. One said,"It's Ray, plz talk back :( ". I was shocked, I haven't gotten anything from him since we broke up. So... I dunno. I'm confused and I dunno what to do. I am curious to see what he wants, but I also dunno if I even should. He hurt me.

    Any help? Please?

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    I think it might be best to call him back. You sound like you need a little more closure on the matter, and that's the only way to get it. However, when you talk to him, keep in mind that you're spoken for now. Don't give him the opportunity to get back in your heart. You broke up, he hurt you, and that's the way it is. He could be calling to apologize, and if he is then let him. But don't continue contact with him after the fact- you would just be asking for trouble.

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    Okay... I decided to message him back. I sent him a text saying,"Why the hell did you decide to talk to me after 4 months of nothing?" Then he just sent me another text saying,"I'm sorry I had no way of telling you I was in trouble plz don't be mad." I'm just like GRRR!!!! How can I not be mad???