boyfriend maddness! please help~!

  • NoPatience
    19 years ago

    me and my boyfriend were together 1 year and 3 months and 31 days. he broke up with me the day b4 the 4 month marking. which was yesterdsay. he told me that he has too much going on for us to be together. and then the next day i hear from my old bestfreind that ha asked this girl (his ex) out the same day that he broke u with me. im going crazy because b4 i found this out he had asked me back out and told me that he has a plan to make it alll right. i just think that its a lie but then again why would she lie about it? hes been known to lie but i dont know what to believe. the person that told me is known to lie too. and i found oout like 5 min ago and it was too late to call him. i talked to his mom on the comp and asked her bout it and she told me that she didnt know anything about it and then signed off really quick. now i cant call him until morning. and theirs one thing i forgot to mention... we went to this one middleschool last year together and had alot of problems. so we left together and went to another school until my mom decided to homeschool me and then he decided to go back to the 1st middle school. im soo confused. i cant talk to him till morning but i need advice now if any1 has some input that plaes tell me. im sorry if this is bad typing but im in a rush to get answers and im really upset. please give me some advice!????

  • Renea
    19 years ago

    I had a boyfriend like that too...we went Off and on for the Longest time...Guys sometimes get tired of the same girls after a while!! This could be because he never sees you or things happen at his school and you NOT being there effects him!!! Or It could be that hes Growing up and moving into puberty and he is becoming more sexually Active (Most guys already are or do at this time)...I think that you guys just need a break and Maybe it will all work out..If you really LOVE him and your not scared to share your feelings the you should talk to him about it...Its not going to help on how much advice you have.. Thats just gonna make you feel better about yourself _trust me i know_YOU need to decide on what YOU want to do...DONT worry about ANYONE else but what you feel in your heart and your mind.. Please use my advice because it should work out..I have Faith in you and you Man!! your friend,Renea

  • NoPatience
    19 years ago

    me and my boyfreind are already sexually active and hes already gone thru puberty. my mom has decided that me and him cant date for along time until i find more confidence in myself. i kinda understand that but it hurts really bad to know that i cant call him as often and we cant hang out. thanks for the advice. it helped alot. my mom doesnt want me to talk to him as much so she wont let me call him he has to call me but then she still gets mad. so there for i cant really share my feelings with him. i really wish i could. but i dont want to seem clingy if you know what i mean.
    your friend
    paulette

  • NoPatience
    19 years ago

    does ne one else have any advice for me. we are still broken up but he asked me back out and then he doesnt call me for 4 days what the hell is up with that? im not going to call him if he wants to talk to me then he would call. but i think that i am going to get put back into school. not for him tho. what should i do???

  • NoPatience
    19 years ago

    please people i know that this is long but i need some reassurance! please help!

  • Heathergirl
    19 years ago

    I agree