It's my birthday [1/18] worst birthday ever

Well, it's a bit late on the post since its already the 19th, but oh well. Mm. So yeah, why this is the worst day of my life?

- This girl said out loud in our 3rd period class "Hey guys, it's Dominique's birthday tomorrow". I'm like, wtf. I mean, it was rude of her to mention somebody else's bday out loud w/o mentioning the exact today celebrant. Guys, it really hurts. I mean, it really does. I may sound so sensitive, cause I really am. But that girl [M] is being inconsiderate, rude, etc. Well, she's not the only one doing it anyway, other people as well. It hurts.

- Well, some people teased me today. There was this one dude who was makin fun of me and my friend (we're both asians) callin us fried rice, those kinda asian cuisine. Then there's this other dude was like, "Hey, where my gameboy at? Dont ya.ll make em?" ugh. It was rude for them to do that. So I went to the bathroom & started crying. I mean, I am 100% sure that if its not my birthday, I will be okay. But it is - and I thought it would be better than my ordinary days, when as a matter of fact, it's actually worse.

- This afternoon, my mom went to school for a meeting with my guidance counselor, algebra, science, world geography, and english teachers cause of my grades. I'm failing - just because of my homework. So now, I have to do 40 homeworks over the weekend.! At least 10 per subject. And my world geo. teacher suggested I should get pulled out the dance team. And since she had the dance team in it, everybody else kept mentioning it every 5minutes. When my councilor told me [again], and my mom joined in too - then I started crying. I mean, dancing is my passion. They know that, everybody knows that. And if I'll get pulled out of the dance team - I just know I will never be the same. I admit, the dancing part crushed me [completely]; I'm the captain - feel the pain. How can they discouraged me from doing something I passionately love on my birthday?

- Then this afternoon, my bf is a bit perverted & I'm more of the demure kinda lady. We were in his room, making out - yeah & he kept forcing me to do something I dont wana do. I really feel so violated. He kept mentioning he loves me, that he;ll do anything for me.. So I replied "Then stop." He got this sad look on his face that it's not even the pretending - pity kinda look. He got disappointed, so I felt worse. While we were walkin down the hill, he was with his friends & he was actin like as if I was never there. And he mentioned how many girls' names. Ugh. I didnt have any problem with that - two can play that game; oh. he better wait. Plus I was way past my curfew, but I let it slide since he pleaded & he promised before we arrived to his apartment he;ll walk me home. But guess what? HE DIDNT. I ended up walking by myself just for him & his friends to take the metro. wtf. Thank God, my mom didnt ask a looot of questions, she just sang happy bday to me.but its still sad

- I didnt get the chance to talk to my family back home.

- My biggest regret ever: I wanted a digital camera for my birthday. But then, I chose to have a dinner with my ex - who [was] my best friend & brother (come to think of it, we dont even talk anymore at all.!) I chose that dinner with someone not special to me as much as before over a camera. My mom already called for reservations. He didnt even bother to ask mefor the plans yet nor got on aim - he should know better.! God what was I thinking.

Yeah. bad birthday huh. :' (

-- some quotes: ---

What I learned from today: "It's my birthday. So?"

Yes, I expected a lot from my birthday.
Yes, I didn't get anything I want.
Yes, people mistreated me.
Yes, I cried.
No, I'm not excited for next year anymore.

First of all- Happy Belated Birthday. :)

"This girl said out loud in our 3rd period class "Hey guys, it's Dominique's birthday tomorrow". I'm like, wtf. I mean, it was rude of her to mention somebody else's bday out loud w/o mentioning the exact today celebrant. Guys, it really hurts. I mean, it really does. I may sound so sensitive, cause I really am. But that girl [M] is being inconsiderate, rude, etc. Well, she's not the only one doing it anyway, other people as well. It hurts."

--Try not to let her get to you. Maybe she didn't, or she's closer to the other guy than it is to you. As long as the people close to you remember it's your birthday, then it's okay. Don't take it so personally (although I know that's harder than it sounds).

"Well, some people teased me today. There was this one dude who was makin fun of me and my friend (we're both asians) callin us fried rice, those kinda asian cuisine. Then there's this other dude was like, "Hey, where my gameboy at? Dont ya.ll make em?" ugh. It was rude for them to do that. So I went to the bathroom & started crying. I mean, I am 100% sure that if its not my birthday, I will be okay. But it is - and I thought it would be better than my ordinary days, when as a matter of fact, it's actually worse."

--And they're jerks. Honestly, I would again advise you not to take things so personal. I know it hurts, but learn to laugh it off. People are going to judge you for the rest of your life based on your race, looks, personality, and anything else about you that is different from themselves. You know you're better than them, so who cares what they have to say?

"This afternoon, my mom went to school for a meeting with my guidance counselor, algebra, science, world geography, and english teachers cause of my grades. I'm failing - just because of my homework. So now, I have to do 40 homeworks over the weekend.! At least 10 per subject. And my world geo. teacher suggested I should get pulled out the dance team. And since she had the dance team in it, everybody else kept mentioning it every 5minutes. When my councilor told me [again], and my mom joined in too - then I started crying. I mean, dancing is my passion. They know that, everybody knows that. And if I'll get pulled out of the dance team - I just know I will never be the same. I admit, the dancing part crushed me [completely]; I'm the captain - feel the pain. How can they discouraged me from doing something I passionately love on my birthday?"

--Considering it's your birthday, I really hate to tell you to do your homework, but there isn't really anything else you can do. Unfortunately, to be on most extra-curricular activities you need to keep up a relatively good grade average, or at least a passing one. As much as it sucks, just do your homework. If you make it a habit, it won't seem so bad anymore. Hopefully you can convince them not to kick you off the dance team, and this will teach you to work harder. It's too bad that it happened to be on your birthday, but that was probably a mere coincidence.

"Then this afternoon, my bf is a bit perverted & I'm more of the demure kinda lady. We were in his room, making out - yeah & he kept forcing me to do something I dont wana do. I really feel so violated. He kept mentioning he loves me, that he;ll do anything for me.. So I replied "Then stop." He got this sad look on his face that it's not even the pretending - pity kinda look. He got disappointed, so I felt worse. While we were walkin down the hill, he was with his friends & he was actin like as if I was never there. And he mentioned how many girls' names. Ugh. I didnt have any problem with that - two can play that game; oh. he better wait. Plus I was way past my curfew, but I let it slide since he pleaded & he promised before we arrived to his apartment he;ll walk me home. But guess what? HE DIDNT. I ended up walking by myself just for him & his friends to take the metro. wtf. Thank God, my mom didnt ask a looot of questions, she just sang happy bday to me.but its still sad"

--I would forget about the boyfriend. He sounds like an idiot. He doesn't really love you if he's going to pressure you to do things that make you feel violated, and the sad face is just trying to guilt you into it. Today things should have been all about you -at least to him-. Ditching you for his friends and pressuring you to fool around with him is completely inconsiderate. I would seriously break up with him if I were you.

"I didnt get the chance to talk to my family back home."

--That's too bad, really, but make sure you call them tomorrow! Even if it's a day late, it will still be nice to hear from them.

"My biggest regret ever: I wanted a digital camera for my birthday. But then, I chose to have a dinner with my ex - who [was] my best friend & brother (come to think of it, we dont even talk anymore at all.!) I chose that dinner with someone not special to me as much as before over a camera. My mom already called for reservations. He didnt even bother to ask mefor the plans yet nor got on aim - he should know better.! God what was I thinking."

--I don't really understand how you could have had a digital camera, but that's okay. Put it on your Christmas list and let it go.

I'm sorry your birthday didn't go as great as you planned. I hope you make some positive changes, feel better, and have a better one next year. :)

Your young. you'll learn to deal with it all. you cant be so sentitive. learn to stand your ground. and dont let anyone affect you so much. as long as your still alive and you like yourself. then you have nothing to worry about. So what if people make fun of you cuz your asian. Their losers with nothing better to do. Smile when they do that, cuz if you cry or get mad it makes them do it more not less. If you smile and laugh it off. they will stop. you dont need that guy. your too young to be giving it up anyway. your young you dont need a boyfriend. You need to focus on that work so you can stay on the dance team. Cuz if its important to you, then you should do all you can to pass. Im sorry you had a sucky birthday, but move on and hope for a better one next year. and digital cameras arent all that. like the other person said. put it on your christmas list...

Pretty rough birthday.
[happy belated] my birthday was yesterday too! :DD lol. .
anyway. that asian thing, i'm chinese. People do that to me too! And it's really super annoying, I know! And I hate it to because it's so retarded! The only thing I don't have a problem with is people calling me Eggroll. I know it sounds weird, but this kid gave me the "nickname" and he got everyone else to call me it, and eventually, after a year or so, it just. .stuck. So, yeah. Anyway. Some kids are just losers and have nothing better to do with their pathetic lives, but feed off the embarrassment or tragedies of others.

well. I don't have a lot to say about everything you've written, but all I can say it, don't let it all get to you so much. And about the dance thing, personally, I don't think you should quit, unless you start to feel overwhelmed. Then take a break? But don't quit if you don't want to. And your boyfriend. .bleh. .I don't think he should be worth anything in your life. He seems like a jerk and an idiot. And like he doesn't respect you all that much. He shouldn't be pressuring you do anything. But I don't think you should just forget about him altogether.
i'm sorry your birthday wasn't as great as you hoped. :[
And that quote.
I've felt that way for the past like 6 years of my life.
But I hope things eventually go better for you. :]

Ah. i wish any of my birthdays were this good..i'd be grateful...

at least its over with and you can move on with your year...but i'm sorry it wasnt a good birthday. just try to keep your grades up and you can keep dancing. ditch your boyfriend. and just plan something fun to do for your next birthday.

cheers

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAAAARRR DOMINIQUEE (i hope thats your name =/)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOUUU :D

happy belated birthday :D

and wow/
alot did happen on your birthday huh ?

but dont worry about it :D
im asian too, and altough no one makes rude remarks about me being asian, sometimes it does happen but just try not to take it to heart.
turn it into a joke or something. laugh along. :) cause once they realise that it doesnt affect you they'll move on.
those guys seem gay and immature :D just ignore them :D
and i hope you keep dancing :D
im sure you can manage the homework :D goodluck :D hehe
and your boyfriend wasnt awfully nice, i agree with ^ ditch him :D hes not worth is :D

i hope you have a good birthday next year :D

xo.cindy !

Thanx everybody. im sorry if i sound pretty sensitive; i really cant help it if i feel that way. thank you so muchh. that made me feel wayyy better.

Hey am asian andm am very very proud to be one. you will find many crul people in this world so just ignore them. i am not good at cheering up but hey cheer up. you live once here so enjoy it while you can

Today is my birthday...and I hate my b-day too...First of all, i woke up to find that the ecomony dropped in both Us and Eurupe, My mom kept forgetting I have plans with my bestfriend Anali in the afternoon insiting we go out to dinner, nobody remeber what it was today (good thing) till my friend started telling everyone...I hate getting attencion...I invited friends over so that my mom relizes I have friends but really it was just that, having ppl over stresses me out..and my other bestfriend Raul, is was like a brother to me till he chose to ask me out, he compleaty forgot everything...and this mouth i skipped that time of the mouth..I have no clue why...(i have never liked by birthday...Its just about the worst day of the year...Then comes christmas and new years)(Parents are always fighting on thoughs days)