What would you do?

Okay.. so i dated this guy for 7 months...and i really did like him...a lot.. okay so i only saw him once but we talked on the phone every night for hours on end and we hit it off really well. And i decided to end things about a month ago because it hurt me to much to never see him and i didn't like to see him sad that he couldn't see me. But we are still pretty good friends.

My friend went up to about an hour where my ex lives and she must have called him *they have only talked once on the phone.. for like 3 seconds* and he and a friend went up to see her. *he could drive an hour to see her.. but couldn't drive to see me when i was 10 minutes away but i actually live like 2 hours away...this was when i was out of town so don't think that we lived 10 minutes away from eachother but never saw one another...* and my ex and friend hung out for the afternoon and went skating and SWIMMING together. Am i overreacting? cuz this really sends up a red flag and makes me a little *okay a lot..* mad. I know i broke up with him and she is single, but i thought that best friends should stay away from ex's....what would you do???

I saw him a couple of times before i dated him. but i only saw him once when i did start dating him...But i really did like him...a lot...and i mean yeah we are friends now.. because that is basically what we were when we were going out anyway. and i have a boyfriend now...so this shouldn't really be bothering me should it? I mean, this shouldn't even really effect me at all....he's a big boy now and can make his own decisions...but why does this bug me?

Yeah.. he is 10x times better *he actually comes down to see me* lol but no i don't wanna go back out with him because of how much pain was caused by being with him and not seeing him...but i guess it just hurts that my friend would want to spend time with an ex of mine....that hurts me, and then that my ex would do that to me...*because we are still good friends* and its like he wanted me to get angry cuz he called me saying "guess who i'm with right now.. oh hang on she' drowning, i gotta go save her...i'll call yah right back *giggling in the back ground*" ....i don't know....

Thanks sweetie for all of your help! :D

She hasn't been in school for the past few days...so i haven't even got a chance to talk to here. But last night i worked up the courage to call her, but she didn't answer. I've been thinking about this, and it is pretty silly of me to be over reacting to this. But deep in my heart...it still hurts. I know that they can make their own decisions and its a free country, they can date whoever they want. But i just feel like i've been back stabbed by someone i thought would always be there for me. Maybe i'm just losing it! haha i wouldn't be surprised! :D