Is this bad

  • Mello193
    17 years ago

    Is it bad to be awesome

  • Christina
    17 years ago

    Yes....i think it is.....and i think its wrong to even consider it!

  • the song writer
    17 years ago

    Awww dood
    thats messed up man
    like no offense but
    that is definitely not the right way to get a girl to stay with you.

    buy her some flowers, write her a love note, tell her how much she means to you

  • Noir
    17 years ago

    Is it wrong....Yes!

    Is it pathetic....Yes!

    Is it quite misogynistic...Yes!

    But can the girl remove herself from the guy...Yes!

    Just because a man makes a woman pregnant does not entitle him to her exclusivity...There are a lot of women with great families structures, that will help them raise their little one without the father.

    Hopefully the girl is sensible to see his actions.

  • Angelina Taylor
    17 years ago

    Yes it is bad, it's also selfish, irresponsible and immature. And you're 15!

  • SH3S fiNAllY H3R3 l0V3 U N3NA
    17 years ago

    Oh, it's defintely bad to get her pregnant. If she doesn't wanna be with you, you'll move on to someone new. But getting a girl pregnant is a big step. You have to be responsible, mature, and sure that she wants a kid also. Think about what you're doing and then you'll realize it's not good. I hope this helped. Good luck!

    .:CiNdY :.

  • sibyllene
    17 years ago

    She would only resent you, for the deceit and manipulation.

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    17 years ago

    O.O is this a serious question?

    of course its bad!
    i dont know why anyone would even think this
    and there are plenty of pregnant women that are single
    the girl doesnt NEED her boyfriend to survive with a baby you know.

    =|

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    My dad did that to my mom so they ended up getting married. They still are 21 years later. It's their anniversary today actually.
    So I don't think it's a good thing to do, especially at such a young age and if you guys aren't prepared to have a child, but hey sometimes it works out for the best.

    --Viola

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    ^No, my grandmother did. Well they were together for a really long time before hand and were probably going to get married anyways. It's a complicated story. But it wasn't one of those illogical teenager decisions.

  • Sherry Lynn
    17 years ago

    Yes! It is bad! I had my oldest son when I was 17 and me and his father are not together.

    Having a baby will not keep her with you. Especially when she realizes that women can care for their children without a "man", and I use that term loosely here, around.

    If you really love her then let her go. It will hurt and hurt bad, but do not try to force her to stay with you or else she will only end up hating you.

    ~~Sher

  • VanityIllusions2
    17 years ago

    It is wrong.
    If someone doesn't want you there not worth your time.
    If she is making you that insecure save yourself the embarassment and end it with her there are plenty of fish in the sea..

  • Kayla Sonya Dearing
    17 years ago

    Yes it is wrong...if ya'll are meant to be then you won't lose her. Besides are you ready to have a baby? Can you afford a kid? Can you honestly buy dippers for it or get up in the morning at like 3am? You can't just rush these things, I know trust me...I've lost four kids by miscarriages and I don't know why but I think its because I'm not ready to have a baby...so trust me if ya'll want to be together you will be together.

  • Mello193
    17 years ago

    Sorry peoples. This wasn't a serious question. It WAS something to consider and I would never manipulate a girl to stay with me, especially with another life to concider. I hope none of you are angry with me. And besides the girl I love doesn't want a child and niether do I. I'm 15 and she's 14. Wed be too young. I do love her and I want her to love me for me, not becuase wed have a child together. I already discussed a child to her.(as a random question) and we both don't want kids.....sorry if I affended you

  • Alex Marlatt
    17 years ago

    That's messed up. The only time anyone should consider having a child is if they truly want a kid and they are able to take care of it. Using one for manipulation is a horrible thing to consider.

  • Dark Secrets
    17 years ago

    I guess you've had enough comments to stop you from doing this, but it's good of you to think before you do something and of coarse ask about it... as everyone else said don't do it you'll mess up both your lives and she might not even stay with you... if you are ment to be you wouldn't split up. Anywayz you've got your whole life ahead of you and you'll find someone, and she'll definatly be worth the wait.

  • Syndicate
    17 years ago

    I can not beleive you even had to ask that

  • Mello193
    17 years ago

    Hey guys, it wasn't serious. I would never do anything like that....I'm sorry if I offended any one. I know its messed up. It was just a random twisted thought in my skull. I don't even want a kid. I'm fifteen, I couldn't suport it, let alone me and her...sorry if I offended anyone, please forgive me for this stupid thought

  • Mello193
    17 years ago

    Hey what happened to my other topic. The one about my name.....its just gone....wth....

  • Trying To Love Is The Hardest Thing
    17 years ago

    Thats.. wrong..

  • Helena
    17 years ago

    *smack* moron. -_- how many times do I have to tell you. Get some damn morals.

  • Mello193
    17 years ago

    Haha its not serious babe

  • Mello193
    17 years ago

    Marii your so smart.....not

  • XxToWriteLoveOnHerWristxX
    17 years ago

    Thats wrong. its stupid. and yes it is bad.

  • Mello193
    17 years ago

    I'm sorry again. Don't be mad, its not a serious topic

  • cicek
    17 years ago

    Well the way i c it is the girl has controll to if she wants to be pregnant or not.....soooo its not always the guys fault....even if he wanted to get her pregnant....she could say no if he doesnt wear a condom.....every one has self control......

  • chind
    17 years ago

    Haha.

  • Sweet lig
    17 years ago

    Absolutely ............... hmmmm!

  • Kelsie
    17 years ago

    Thats pretty selfish yo

  • Mello193
    17 years ago

    Sorry...

  • firexdancer
    17 years ago

    It would be completely wrong and horrible if you were actually asking the question seriously. But since you're not and obviously are really responsible, I don't think that's any reason to beat you up about it. lol.
    I like your pic btw.
    ^_^

  • Mello193
    17 years ago

    Thanks

  • LoneStar
    16 years ago

    Its bad you dont have to do that
    because your afraid of loosing a girl

  • Ixora
    16 years ago

    I think their reaction just shows that its not a good idea lol.

    I also have to say its pretty stupid. My friends boyfriend actually did/is try(ing) to get her pregnant but he just wants a kid. Weird. Anyway, if nothing else you have to think of the kid. I dont think it could be too happy.

  • Mello193
    16 years ago

    I want a kid. I decided it.

  • Paralyzed
    16 years ago

    Wanting, needing and be able to care for are very different things. You are 15 so I hope you mean later rather than sooner.

    And getting someone pregnant in no way means she won't leave you.

  • StandStill
    16 years ago

    To the original post..um..if you have to ask, you obviously know it was wrong and stupid.

  • TragicRomance
    16 years ago

    Is this a serious question. Not only is it stupid. It is also selfish, irresponsible, and inconsiderate. That is hurtful. If she doesn't want to be with you, you will find someone else. You are having sex at 15
    ?

  • Mello193
    16 years ago

    Soooo a lot of people have sex at 15.....I guess I'm sorry =(

  • Normal is the Watchword
    16 years ago

    So I'm guess I'm one of the, "few" that respect myself not to have done that at fifteen. Your attitude with that, when it comes to sex, is pretty bad as in your going along with the crowd.