NEED ADVICE :S

One of my cousins has told me she thinks she is lesbian she has only told me.
Our family is very strict about that kind of thing and she knows i am the only one that won't judge her.
she keeps asking me what she is going to do?
she thinks she will lose her friends and family?
i don't know what to say to make her feel better?
HELP! PLEASE!

They should respect her life decision. she should come clean...its nice she has someone though

You're a good person for not judging her or disliking her for something that she cannot control. Let her know that you're there for her and show your support as often as you can. There is nothing you can do about the rest of the family besides standing by her side and defending her if and when she tells them.

I think she should just tell every1. if she's too afraid to tell her "friends" who she REALLY is, they aren't really friends.

I can't help you there because I just found out that I am lesbian too, recently and haven't tolled nobody yet."

I guess your father must be proud seeing as he himself is lesbian...Oh and your mother must be gay...

I never knew how simple the LGBT is? Guess my father and mother will join hand in hand with the other lesbians and gays in the pride parade...

I can see them now, my father acting as a butch lesbian, and my brother as his lipstick girlfriend...Lol.

FYI: Tolled is actually told....Without the "l" or "e"...or maybe you want others to pay you for telling them your secret...I'm confused...?? Lol.

Seriously ddavidd, this isn't a light issue, stop trivialising a problem, with your nonsensical off-topic posts.

To the poster:

Just tell her, you love her for who she is, she is I'm guessing trying to find her own sexuality, so just bear it, and be there for her.

All you can do is support her and tell her that you accept her for how she is. and i dont really know what you can tell her to make her calm down about being a lesbian, because i havent told hardly anyone im bi because im afraid of the same thing.

just support her is the best advice i guess..sry i couldnt be of more help

"As much as I disapprove of the cultural homosexuals, I hate seeing people who wrinkling their true-self shoving and hiding it in the closets!"

So you disapprove of homosexuality...How very zen of you?

Its nice to know that all those cultural homosexuals, would need your approval, before coming out?

Lol...Better get your pen ready...