This may be random

Okay I dated this guy for awhile and he cheated on me. I broke up with him three days later. I had to comfort him sense he was sad about it. And when he asked for space, I gave it to him. But I didnt leave like most girls would. Okay its now a month an half and Im like getting over the situation. Like it doesnt hurt me anymore. Ive tried to tell him that I just need some space to think things through. Cuz there is like 2 other guys knocking at my door. I just want to figure out what I want to do. And he is taking it like him Pushing him away. So now he's cutting me out of life. And Im trying to get him to understand, but its hard cuz Im still needing that space. He wants me to just be his girl all over again, but I really have to think about it. I mean he hurt me, and he was my first love and my first to break my heart. I just dont know what to do. Cuz Im struggling trying to keep him staying, cuz I dont want to loose him. not now.

Well, here's what I think. If you want this guy in your life you should be with him, but if it makes you miserable being with him because he broke your heart then don't mess with him. Its more difficult when the problems are interwoven... I think that you guys should just have a seat and talk about it. Tell him what's on your mind. If he feels bad about what he did then mabe you should give him a second chance, but be wary. It tends to lead to worse problems if you don't catch it before it possibly happens again. Watch how he acts and if you feel comfortable with his apology then go ahead.

Best wishes and good luck. =)