Heartbroken AGAIN!

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Ok so liike there was a varsity game today and i was cheering and the guy ive been in love with for like bout 1 1/2 and i thot he felt the same way. he completely ignored me and at the end of the night i saw him huggen this girl and i just started to cry cuz i cant deal with it rite now and its just maken me sad!

  • Tiffany
    16 years ago

    Thats so sad! Cliched, but im sure one day u'll find the man of your dreams who thinks you're the girl of his dreams.

  • XxBrokenInsidexX
    16 years ago

    Ive been through kinda the same thing
    But instead of just crying I walked up to him and he sayed "oh,hay baby, she is just a friend of mine i knew a long time ago"
    I know the hurt you feel because..I feel it too....It hurt so much because he lied to me in my eyes and I was crushed...That girl he was hugging ended up being his ex and he talks to her every night to this day asking her for advice on our relationship...
    Its hard because I get so jealous...Why does he need her to build our relationship???
    (Sorry for saying all this...I had it locked in my chest)

    But for you..I say he didnt deserve someone as pretty as you :)
    Some people dont know what they have till its gone && maybe he was too blind to see how much you really loved him...
    If you need to talk ill listen (without telling my story this time lol)
    -Hugs-

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    ^ thanks its just so hard me and him are a rollercoaster! and idk if my heart can take it ne more! i love him so much but i cant deal with this!!....my heart feels likke its in a million and one pieces!

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    She could've just been a friend- you need to talk to him about this before you get yourself all worked up. You are dating him, right? You need to communicate.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Well i would call it daten its rele hard cuz ok long story short........my dad hates him ALOT! and he doesnt even kno him he just thinks he does......ne ways so liike we re but we arnt and i kno that it sounds like then he has a rite to talk to other girls and stuff but its different.......u kno....idk ik it sounds dumb to u but it aint.......and i kills me cuz today at school he acted like nothen happened!

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    If you are that insecure in this relationship (or whatever it is) that he can't hug a friend without getting you all worked up, then it probably isn't worth being in.

    I don't really understand your relationship with him- you two just like each other, friends with benefits, what? Either way, talking is key. If you can't talk to him, then you shouldn't be with him.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Umm were not friends with benifits! just to clear that up...and im not insecure ik they started to talk for a lil bit..........and its hard cuz like it was when me and him went are seprate ways for a little bit and to see them together like that idk its just hard