The Guy I Love. ."/

Okay. So this is making my heart feel like it's way out of place. The guy I love, as I've previously mentioned in other of my forums, has moved away. And he's moved on, he's BEEN moved on. And I can't quite seem to do it as well, or as fast as him. And in my other forums, I talked about how we'd talked and he'd said some things I [-thought-] I needed to hear, yet I still cannot move on. He has a girlfriend and at first I was bothered by it because he didn't bother telling me.
I cried myself to sleep that night. [yeah, pathetic right?] And I decided/thought I was over it, the fact that he has a girlfriend, last night. But today, something just. .hit me. And I guess you could say I had an epiphany. And now, it's all I been thinking about all day and on the inside, I feel like I wanna cry. But no tears come to my eyes. I feel so empty, so lost, you know. ."/

Aw hun... it will get better, i promise. sooner or later you will wake up and realize that its really time to move on. it seems like he already has. i definently know how you feel. i'm still in the process of getting over someone. but trust me IT WILL GET BETTER!!!!!!

Alot of people say that to me. "it'll get better, I promise" I use to believe that things will actually get better. But I've been waiting for things to get/be better for 3 years. [think I'm pathetic now?] He moved on 3 years ago, and I'm still stuck on the same old guy. "/ He's gone through many girls; I've only been able to trust about 3 guys since then, but they all broke my heart, too. Everything just seems/feels so complicated, you know.

Well. i guess i have things that can distract me. because i've got this big college thing coming up. i'm only a sophmore right now. but my dad's trying to get me to go to this community college. "/

but my friends aren't much help, sadly. Because we had all the same friends. And they all remind me of him because there's always a memory, you know. "/

That sucks....wait for him. Just wait. And tell him...don't make the same mistakes I did. If you want it bad enough, go for it. Tell him no matter what. Just wait for him....

Trust me....mello193

Honestly I think that you should try and get over him as best as possible. If you sit around and wait for him ur just gonna hurt yourself more. My freshmen year of highschool when my boyfriend broke up with me i was heart broken. So i took a couple days to cry and eat ice cream and then i waited for him. (The worst thing i could have done.)

Well i was hoping he would realize wat a mistake he had made and take me back. Yeah right. He dated my best friend. I got over him when i started dating my current boyfriend. it took awhile but it is possible to do. If you DO wait around for him it isnt gonna do any good.

I hope you will take my advice and try your very best to get over him. I personally think it is the best thing to do.....

Hey hunny. I honestly don't know what to tell you, as I have never been in your position before, but I will say that you need to just stay strong. Mmkay? It'll be hard, but I think you can move on from this. If you ever need someone to rant or vent to, I'm here. ;) I'm a fantabulous listener.

Much love. x
Steph.

Thanks to all. :]

i dunno. I been trying to shun him from my life. And ignore him whenever he was online. And I actually stopped talking to him for like a week or two and I thought I was doing pretty well. I mean, at the same time it's probably not "healthy" to suppress my feelings for him. Becuse there's no denying how much I miss him and wishes that he were still here.
But anyway. The point is, I feel like sometimes, maybe he's not meant to be out of my life completely. Like everytime I start trying to leave him out of my life, he always manages to unexpectedly pop back into it, you know. And like I said, I been trying to ignore him. Well yesterday he started talking to me and we ended up having a really deep conversation about my life and everything that's happened between me and him. i dunno. .Maybe I'm just. .not strong enough.

I had the same problem with an ex and he moved on and I couldnt...i realized that why should i cry when he doesnt even think of me...block everything that reminds you of him and see other people one of those people a very unexpected one will come into your life...when you least expect it and will make all those tears worth it at the end....
believe me... I know because I went through it...
I am barely moving on after almost 4 years....

Im still holding on. It's not even like I'm hanging by a thread or something.. I'm still holding. "/ And for me, it's been 4 years as well. I met him in 6th grade but I never thought anything like this would ever happen. Having him hurt me could've been the best and worst thing to happen in my life. Sigh. I know I have to let go, but there's just so much I don't wanna let go of.

Sometimes u dont have a choice....
u have to let go
because ur holding on to something that no longer exists
and i know
u dnt want to
but it hurts more to hang on