Distanced Friends

  • Leah1170
    17 years ago

    Hey guys I have this friend that lives about 9 hours from me. We met about a year ago and the other day he told me his true feelings to me. Well, he did after I had to clear up the distress he was in. Totally hysterical because of parent troubles. Bless his heart. Well I cheered him up by sending a buch of clown smilies over Yahoo Messenger and I told him that I'd always be there for him if he ever needed me. He sent a kissy smilie. Then later on we got into a kissy smilie war where he'd send about two million and I'd only send about a million because apparently he was really excited and his hads were bouncing on the keyboard. haha

    Then the end of our conversation began to get quiet and i pulled up the Doodle environment. He drew the prettiest picture for me that had me dressed up as an angel that was shot with cupid's arrow with little hearts all around my head. I was soooo happy i was about to break down and let tears of joy. I'd never had someone like me so much.

    Then after the convo ended i spoke to my mom about possibly calling him sometime. She said she wasn't sure about it.

    So I was wondering..... what do you guys think? Would it be a bad idea even if I'd known the guy for almost a year now?

  • shatteredsoul
    17 years ago

    Well, I wouldn't know much about the subject, but I sort of agree with you mother.
    It could go really well (at first) or it could end up as hell.
    wait a little while and then check on how you REALLY feel.
    because from what I know, it emotions vary from day to day. I once liked this guy alot, and when he asked me out I said yeah...but then it just ...sort of went downhill-the day after I said yes, I said to myself,
    "what the hell have I done." lol.
    and I knew him for about two or three years before he asked...

    like I said 'm not good on such topics, sorry I can't be of much help.

  • Leah1170
    17 years ago

    Hmmm...

  • Leah1170
    17 years ago

    I haven't met him. We just "met", as in got acuainted over Halo. He lives 9 hours from me. I've known him for about a year now and he seems like a really cool guy. He gave me his phone # last night and told me to call. Do you think it'd be a good idea? I guess I could block it but would it still help to keep ppl from being able to trace it to my phone?

    Serious question. Really need help, and I really really want to talk to this guy.

  • SweeT pOisOn
    17 years ago

    Mmmm.....seeing ur situation, i dunno wut to tell ya actually...i mean y do u really wanna talk to him?? is it curiosity?? or fullfilling needs?? or attracation?? or random play?? or long distance friendship?? or wut exactly???
    if u can ans that question urself, then u know wut u r doing...i know u just sometimes feel like doing something without being abloe to clearly find a specific reason, but believe me, if u want results that u wn't regret, dig deep to find the reason!!!
    once u found the reason, c if it's sensible or not!!!

    finally, u will find urself taking the decision on ur own!!! YAHOOO....that's ur goal!!!